We just spent $3k replacing our espresso machine.
The OG. Aaron’s gift to himself when he got his job with Apple in Jan 2021.
The first one gave us 5 years of return.
It was with us through two cross-country moves and made at least 5,000+ shots of espresso.
And saved us an embarrassing amount of Starbucks money. (Aaron did the math, it would have been close to 20k!)
It paid us back over and over. Not just in money but in time, ease, and those little everyday moments that matter. It would’ve cost more to not replace it. Because the investment isn’t always about dollars.
It’s about what that investment gives you back in your life. And that’s kind of like coaching.
Sure it’s a financial investment but most women don’t realize what coaching can give them back in their life.
Not in dollars but in your day to day life.
Coaching gives you space to be human without beating the shit out of yourself for it. It’s not about becoming someone else. It’s about becoming more you — with more compassion, awareness, and choice. Not because you never spiral or have a hard day again, but because the grip loosens. You notice it faster. You pause sooner. You stop making it mean something is wrong with you.
So instead of these patterns running your life in the background, on autopilot, you can see them.
Name them. Normalize them. And choose something different.
I personally have been paying for coaching since 2020.
It started as this strong pull that something needed to change in my marriage, in my life, in my relationship with myself.
And now it’s become about so much more.
It helped me stop being controlled by:
• blaming everything outside of me
• living in resentment
• unspoken expectations in my marriage
• carrying everyone else’s emotions
• diet culture noise
• emotional eating and coping
• all-or-nothing thinking
• my inner critic running the show
• mom guilt and perfectionism
• old generational patterns
• victim mindset
• waiting for confidence
• outsourcing decisions
• chasing happiness “later”
And I’ve watched my clients experience these same shifts too.
Now, it’s not that these things never show up… hello. I’m human.
Coaching didn’t remove the challenges or thoughts. It removed their power. And gave me mine back.
When I have those moments, I now have tools + support that I didn’t have before.
And the version of me six years ago compared to the version of me today is unrecognizable, in the best way.
Now I just deal with new challenges on a new level. (new levels of growth = new challenges.)
And honestly, I really like this level and love where it’s headed.
Me personally, I LOVE talking to my coach regularly.
And I’m confident to say some of my clients are the same.
Some renew again and again.
Some work with me for six months and feel complete.
Some do a maintenance package and stay connected, just less often.
Because having someone to talk to isn’t just a “fix my life” thing.
It’s:
support
accountability
a place to process real life
a space where you don’t have to do everything alone
someone who helps you see your blind spots with compassion
For a lot of women, coaching becomes part of how they take care of themselves.
Like the gym. Like a mental reset.
Not because something is wrong but because life keeps on life-ing and support is powerful.
Just like this espresso machine…coaching is the kind of support that keeps paying you back in how you show up in your life, your relationships, and in your own head.
Not because everything becomes perfect but because you stop spending the next five years in the same loop. And that kind of return is something you can’t put a price tag on.
Looking for this kind of support? I got you. Let’ chat.
